Gone are the days when fire and ice, sugar and spice, sweet and sour were talks of the town when it came to choosing a dream girl for any guy. It’s all bad, bold and bitchy these days to hook your guy. Dating a nice girl is not fad anymore but the trend has gone fade and has taken an exciting turn to be bad at the valentine path.

In Sherry Argov's bestselling book Why Men Love Bitches and Why Men Marry Bitches, the author says, "Men secretly respect a woman who is strong, has confidence and dreams of her own. They don't want women who are needy and desperate for approval."

Here are some rational reasons to justify the fact:

1. Being so nice and caring to your boy to make him happy? Nay! That won’t work anymore as this sends a signal to guy that your happiness is surrounded around him and you can’t be alone. He would rather move towards independent and happy go lucky girl.

2. Typical Indian nari scene has been wiped out from men’s mind as over shyness and extremely less spoken girls are taken as less confident and insecure ones. Man would love women with pride.

3. Be interesting not perfect for your guy. Keep the guessing game on to titillate his fantasies.

4. Don’t always cling or insist on spending time with him, after all your girlfriends can have a blast with you, right? Make him feel that you are happy in your own zone without the constant presence of him.

5. Don’t crib if he doesn’t reply, don’t call of text frequently too. Maintain self esteem.

6. Instead of following him blindly, express your mind too.

Source: TNN